Bringing our community together, one match at a time — a trusted service run by the Gurdwara, guided by our volunteer team at every step.
Our service
For years, the Matrimonial Services team at Ramgarhia Sabha Southall has helped families in our community find suitable matches for their sons and daughters. What began as a paper register at the Gurdwara is now a secure online portal — but the heart of the service is unchanged: real people, personally verified, introduced with the involvement of our volunteer team at every step.
Every candidate is met in person. Every profile is checked by our team before it is published. And every connection is approved by us before two candidates are put in touch. Your privacy — and your family's peace of mind — come first.
How it works
From registering at home to a team-approved introduction — here is how the service works from start to finish.
Complete our registration form from home — your details, your background, and what you're looking for in a partner. You can add your own profile photo.
Right now, registration is in person only. Our online form is temporarily unavailable while we update the register — come and see the team at the Gurdwara on a Sunday and we'll complete it with you. See how.
Prefer paper? Pick up a form at the Gurdwara on a Sunday and our team will add you to the system.
Come to the Gurdwara on a Sunday (11am – 1pm) to complete your membership. We verify your identity and qualifications, take your membership fee — cash, or paid online directly to the Sabha — and approve your profile. You'll receive your unique membership ID by email.
Once approved, sign in and browse other candidates at your own pace. You'll see the essentials — candidate number, name, nanke name, age, height, marital status, education, occupation, dietary preference, and the age range they are looking for — but never photos or contact details. Privacy is protected for everyone.
Found a profile that feels right? Express your interest through the portal — up to five at a time, because we believe in quality over quantity. They'll be notified anonymously and can respond, while our team sees the full picture and guides the process.
Visit on a Sunday to view the full profiles of your matches of interest with our team — photos included — and talk it through with the volunteers who know the register best.
When both sides are ready, our team approves the connection. You'll then see each other's full profiles online — including photographs, where each of you consented to that at registration — and can message each other securely through the portal. We never share phone numbers or emails. Where the conversation goes from there is up to you both, with Guru Sahib's blessing.
Safety & privacy
Your safety is built into how our service works — and there are sensible steps you can take too.